You know my BFF, Shannan (a.k.a Flower Patch Farmgirl), right? Well, since she’s one of my favorite writers in the whole weird world, I asked her if she’d put together a post just for me and TLC. She said yes (yay!) and I literally could not wait to read it. I must have hit the refresh button a thousand times a minute yesterday after she texted and said she was going to be sending it over soon. I’m not kidding. She has a wonderful and witty way with words, y’all. Check it out…
Hi! I’m Shannan, and aboutย five years ago, my family and I bought our dream farm-house, complete with six acres, six bedrooms and a whole world of possibility. Over the next four years, we spent untold hours and more money than I’d care to count whipping it into shape. (You can find some of our re-dos here, here, and here.)
Then, right about the time we sank the last nail, we decided to sell. We felt a brand-new urgency to simplify, to step out of our comfort zone. The day we passed the keys to the successors to our dream, we still had no idea where we were really headed.
As it turns out, we are headed to a declining neighborhood in a nearby city. The program we are working with tears down abandoned homes and builds new ones. Following the path of simplicity has led us to right now, when we are faced with all sorts of decorating conundrums. (We knew God was clever, but we had no idea how ironic He could be.)
The home is much smaller and the floor-plan is simple. We will live in a sea of vinyl, and that’s alright with me. Still, I feel my inner Layla Palmer clawing her way out. I’m itching to seize the opportunity and try something different. Because if you’re going to build a house, you might as well build a house that you love.
Which brings me to this: What exactly do I love? Beats me. I’ve never started from scratch before. I’ve always lived in old homes, where the heartbeat is slow and certain and everything comes together over time. This is brand new and I’ll admit, I’m a bit overwhelmed by the options and the sheer velocity of the build.
When pressed, I begin to realize that I love a little bit of everything. I hunt down beauty everywhere I go. Often, it is found in the most unexpected places. If you cock your head just right, it seems most things can wiggle into the shape of art. I eat lunch with my sister-in-law and decide to paint it all white. I visit a friend and have an urge for orange. Soft interiors have me daydreaming about open windows and naps in the middle of the day. Bright colors beckon my inner quirk. So, what’s a girl to do?
I read once that one should take her decorating cues from her closet. Paint the walls the color you wear most often. Do you have a favorite pattern? Hang it on a rod.
It’s worth a try.
Take one: Denim sofas. Pillows made of sweatpants. Gingham curtains. Gray everything. Sweet.
The grand idea seemed to work in theory; not so much in practice.
But I’m a desperate girl, so I took a closer look. Here’s what I found:
I am most “me” when I’m casual and comfortable. Ratty jeans and a T…
I’m farmy to my core (city be danged)…
I’m a fearless pattern-mixer, with a shot of charcoal gray to ground the look…
I’m textured and collected…
I’m an awful lot of gray and white, but there’s got to be some color…
I do, in fact, have a head…
And I promise, that isn’t the only pair of jeans I own.ย (yikes)
Armed with my new self-awareness, I took to my Pinterest boards.ย Behold, a vision emerged…
Ah, I feel so much better! Maybe there is a light at the end of the quick-as-lightning, builder-grade tunnel.
The lesson here? You really can teach an old girl new tricks.
Do you find yourself stuck on a design dilemma? Take two hours in your closet and call us in the morning.
ย (No really, call us. We’re dying to know if it works for you, too.)
Sally
LOVE this post. LOVE the colors. LOVE SHANNAN. ๐
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Love you, Wally!
Shannon Fox
That would be me. I’m like a decorating schizophrenic. What DO you do when you love… everything? It’s so hard to make a choice when you want it all! And not in a greedy way. Just in a, “I like everything and trying to decide gives me a tummy ache” sort of way. I don’t think my closet will help. It’s about as mixed up as me! BUT, I will go look ๐
Flower Patch Farmgirl
I’m the SAME way. I like too much! Seriously, try it. It made me a believer. ๐
Michelle Wright
Wow!! You made me look at decorating in a whole differant view. Love it!! Keep on posting as you grow in your new home * pLeAsE* We just built a cottage on the lake and I had my husband paint the bedroom yellow and I love it. We wake up in the mornings feeling energized and ready to go.
Rhonda
My two favorite bloggers in one place!! What a treat ๐ Inspired by both of you daily. Just realized that I subconciously decorate this way, who knew!!
Shannan, I checked out your sisters blog yesterday, she is so brave! I’m a nurse in an OB/GYN unit and realize the need for caring and selfless people like your sister.
All three of you girls are truly amazing and inspiring!!
Jillian@TheHumbleGourmet
My husband and I are currently going through the stages of looking at homes to buy. My head is bursting with ideas and I need to get my hands on a paintbrush soon!
I love the idea of going through your closet. Fantastic!
Amy
Love this! Seriously, Pinterest has been a Godsend toe. I ripped pages out of magazines for years and stored them in big fat binders, but it’s no easy task to find common themes when you’re pawing through scads of paper. I have boards for home decor (could be broken down further into room), gardening, curb appeal, nursery decor for our future kiddos, etc., and now I can easily spot themes in what I choose to pin. Now I just need to act on those themes. ๐
Nancy
Interesting. I did the opposite: I decorated with the colors that I can’t wear (that look horrible on me) since I can’t wear them. I’d like to move though just so I have an excuse to decorate differently and this time I guess the colors would match the ones in my closet!
Krystle @ Color Transformed Family
I think I need to change the colors in my closet… And my house. Sounds like they are starting down an amazing road in life.
kristin
Love all the fun colors and love her too!
XO
Kristin
Amber
Oh goodness – I have the same problem. I ask myself all the time what is my style and I’m SO indecisive and uncreative and cheap which means my house is boring. I think you, Layla, should let me hang out with you at a flea market or garage sales so I can watch how you see things and make them work in your home or someone else’s.
Image South
Love the orange light fixtures!
Flower Patch Farmgirl
I KNOW! Our kitchen will have pendants “loosely” inspired by them. ๐
Katie Currin
I love this blog. I love Shannan’s blog. What a treat to see her on here. I can’t wait to see her finished house and all the goodies and love she fills it with.
Jennifer
Oh wowowowow!!!!
I love it! I think I even pinned some of your pics on Pinterest a few days ago!
melissa stover
what i learned from this is i have to find me some gingham shirts ASAP! will you please take me shopping? love ya shannan!
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Old Navy is your friend! ๐
Meredith
Gorgeous! Inspirational and will now be checking out your blog! ๐
Debby Messner
I love both of you. I can’t wait to see your new home Shannan.I think it’s all about comfort. Thanks for sharing Shannan with us today.
Shawnda
Oh dear, I think I’m in trouble. I have gone through a loss of identity as far as fashion goes, for oh..4 years or so now. If I used my closet as inspiration, I’d have a beige house. My pants (I only buy one brand/style, and I buy it in every neutral color…so basically in beige, tan, khaki, taupe, brown, gray and black.) are b-o-r-i-n-g. I have polo shirts in a multitude of colors. A bunch of them. And I wear them with my boring pants. But they’re kinda dumpy and I don’t feel like accessorizing them even if they were flattering. I guess I do decorate like my closet after all, with neutrals on the walls, floors, and major pieces, and pops of color (orange, green & blue) for accents. Only it looks better on the house. lol
Melinda
I can see children and parents alike happily living in those interiors you posted. I would believe you are definitely on the right track. Love your gingham : )
sixteen fourteen
Shannan is adorable, but I can’t imagine an all-black interior! ๐
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Ha! My friend Becky (Farmgirl Paints) just posted about painting her bedroom wall black. I’ve gotta say, she pulled it off!
Karen
I love your post… and thanks for the tip about looking at my wardrobe. Your pinterest finds will show you the way though… and I think you see that. I’ve done the same with pages ripped from magazines over the years, and now with pics saved from pinterest – it shows my definate leanings, yet flexiblity also. The kitchen pics are very much what I’m currently doing and where I feel not only comfortable, but also inspired and stimulated – all at the same time. I love to decorate with whites, greys, blues and a little black, and then my wood and coloured accessories make it pop. It’s never boring, and never clinical. All the best xxx
Nicole
I just spent the past hour swooning over all of the re-dos on Flower Patch Farmgirl! I adore your site and can’t wait to see what happens next on your journey.
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Thanks so much! We drove by yesterday and the basement had been dug out. Looks like it’s really happening!
Alea
That made me laugh and I totally relate! We’re building right now and I go back and forth between lots of color, no color, pops of color. I see one thing and like it,then see another opposite thing and like it! I agree with the closet thing and pinterest helps a lot too. You can find you have a style without knowing you had a style! So I’m mostly tan with some grass green and peacock blue. We’ll see how it works on a house scale soon.
Ashli
Loved the post. Black is my ‘uniform” , But my buttons are red. Hmm…
Flower Patch Farmgirl
I like where this is headed… ๐
Jennifer
I love this idea! Great post!
Erin @ His & Hers
This is so me, too! I’ve always said my problem with decor decisions is that I like TOO MUCH. I have every color in my closet, seriously. And I love so many different clothing styles. I think this is why I gravitate toward the eclectic look. ๐
Dawn
Hi Shannan…I’m Dawn, Lucy’s Mom ๐
Just visited you blog …and no need to think any longer about Calvin and Lucy :)…what a cutie!
And, where can I find the leather bracelet??? LOVE it!!
Dawn
p.s. I am horrible at decorating decisions…I like so many different styles!!
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Ha ha! They’d be a perfect couple. It’s settled! (bangs gavel)
Girl, get yourself a cuff right here: http://www.etsy.com/shop/farmgirlpaints?ref=em
I wear mine every. single. wingle. day. It’s one of my very favorite little things.
Sunny Jane
Go to my closet? Why haven’t I ever thought of this? Great idea!
tara Lowry
girl…i can’t wait to see what you come up with…it’ll be colorful and textured and marvelous.
carissa
well see, the thing is, you, my dear shannan, could look gorgeous in any darn thing. so i’m totally certain your house will too, no matter what you do.
ps. hi layla! shannan just introduced me to your blog a few days back. where have i been??
Flower Patch Farmgirl
“you, my dear shannan, could look gorgeous in any darn thing”
Proof that this is, indeed, untrue: The photo on today’s post. Good gravy, what an awful pic!
Deanna
Love you Shannan – Love your style too!I can’t wait to see what you do with your new space!
nic
brilly. that’s short for brilliant, although possibly only in my version of the world.
i have a feeling that next year i am going to inherit someone else’s (thrice inherited) furniture, plus live in a dorm/house where i don’t get much say design-wise. however. i am fo’ sure sneaking in my own pizzaz one way or another, and now i know where to look first.
you just saved me like two point five months of hemming and hawing. i do love you, shannan.
Flower Patch Farmgirl
And I love you, mostly because you shortened brilliant into “brilly” then typed 13 more words explaining your short-cut. Ha ha ha! So something I would/always do.
Becky @ Farmgirl Paints
Well you’d love my house with it’s gray walls and denim blue sofas…all the farmy touches., I’m thinking if you need inspiration you need a visit…ha. Just redid the spare room for ya;)
Charelz
I really want to know where you got that brown jacket from!
Flower Patch Farmgirl
I bought it for $5 at a consignment store! (hate me) It’s from Old Navy.
Jamie @ Six Bricks High
I suffer something terrible from IDS (indecisive decorating syndrome) – I can’t for the life of me make a decorating decision. I’m not sure my closet would help much…brown, black or gray is all I’ve got.
Kate@bliss&that
What a great idea, Shannan! Buuut, is it ok if I come snooping in your closet for inspiration? ๐ I’m pretty 1000% sure that I’d pick your wardrobe over any other. For serious. (I pinned you, hee, hee…) And house decor? I’m so excited to see what you pick to feather your new nest! I could live in every pin you have. We’re twinsies, I tell you, but you’re just the prettier, more fab one… ๐ It was fun to visit you over here!
Scooper
Great post, Shannan! If my home was more like my wardrobe, I’d love it more. I’m trying to move in that direction. Like you, I’m a little bit of everything. I’m bohemian and preppy, Anthropologie meets the Gap. I wear solids with two exceptions: stripes and vintage patterns. And much of my stuff if thrifted. I have to dress and decorate within a limited budget but most of the time I enjoy the challenge. Also? I have a couple of those same pics on my pinboard. And why am I not following you on Pinterest?!? Off to remedy that.
Lauren
What a great idea! I have been trying to get up the gumption to redo some of the half-done rooms in our house and have really stalled on where to find inspiration, because I feel like I like everything too. This is super helpful!
JJasmin Interiors
You are contagious with your get-up-and-go ginghams. After reading I ran to my closet and decided to wear mine today and…..pulled out my cloth napkins with checks for din din tonight….Don’t they just make you sing? Thanks for making the little things bring “big” smiles to my days!
hannah singer
heeeeey. two of my favorites in one place, fpfg and tlc? holla!
i am a pattern mixing fool/weirdo-at home and in my wardrobe. it just works. and brings me endless joy in our cracker box downtown apartment. heaven will look like this, i’m telling y’all.
happy friday, cutie pants girls! xo
Becca
i like you a lot shannan ๐ your beautiful style, your beautiful heart, what you’re doing, where you’re going, how God’s leading you. I pray for you lots! ๐
Leigh in Dallas
Love it! I started trying to think of design that way thanks to Thom Felicia and all his fabulousness on Dress My Nest. Shannan, you’re a super cute dresser and I can totally see the correllation between your outfits and the pinterest pix! I sooooooooo hope we can build someday and get to choose everything ourselves. My dad’s a home builder, so I’ve ALWAYS hoped we can afford to someday have him bring the dream house to life!
Abby
You 2 (3, counting the Mr.) have got me seriously considering giving a hoot about my style. And that is groundbreaking. You’re both very inspiring in all kinds of ways.
FPFG, I thought of you this week when I went to a huge and beautiful Goodwill. They had rows of fabric hanging from hangers and I just stood there thinking…wow…textiles. No gingham, but still.
Flower Patch Farmgirl
You’re killing me, Abs. I’m about to hop on that plane… (is this your whole, evil goal?!)
Abby
In a word…yes. (insert evil laugh here…) ๐
Dana
I LOVE the quirky, mis-matched chairs. I would just ADORE and old farmhouse to restore and decorate!! *sigh*,,,maybe someday!!
jessica@fourgenerationsoneroof
Yes, you are right! It’s funny how when shopping for home and clothing really are the same. My eye ball immediately goes to the same colors. Layla was right, you do have a writing gift ๐
Jo-Anna
I love this post – Shannan is the best – I love her blog and her style is the best!
Jo-Anna
Lindsey
Ahh, it’s so comforting to know that someone else out there has the same dilemma…trying to build the bridge between simple (grays and whites) and the love for some artsy, funk (lots of color and pattern) is definitely a decorating challenge.
Love this post!
Lisa Swifka
This post spoke to my inner schizodecorfrenetic brain…..I always say I wish I had many rooms in our house NOT because I want all that space to keep clean BUT because perhaps I could decorate each in the various styles that I seem to gravitate to. One minute I want lots of color…the next think no, maybe a more natural pallette of linen/white hues…..the next I like a sort of modern farmhouse look but wait…..I think I like a touch of Zen….oh but, geez, bohemian is it.. It’s a whirlwind of grabbing vines tree to decorating style tree like a crazed monkey. So what happens? Things stand still underneath those “trees”…..I drive my husband insane with “I was thinking we should/could…..”. I think our living room walls are held up by all the paint layers of me changing my mind. We have a wee house (and I’m an artist), you’d think it would be easy but wee or gigantic – art or no art – the decorbrainchaos is still the same. Will I ever just settle on one tree and breathe….doubtful….so the journey continues. Money is tight so the bigger things I’d like done are merely images in my inspiration folder. It’s a conundrum I tell you and I think I may be destined for a straigh jacket…hmm maybe I could paint it or add something to it…….I’ll have to decide.
Grabbing the next vine….
Flower Patch Farmgirl
Ha ha! This cracked my business straight up. Good luck!
Adrianna
Love the ruffle blous–where is it from and don’t say consign!! Starting the process of building our first home as well. Success to you Adrianna
Flower Patch Farmgirl
The pinstriped one under the tweed? It’s from J Crew, maybe 3 years ago. ๐
James Goldby
This is great advice, finding somewhere to start is usually the most difficult part of an interior design or decorating project.
Daniela
Hello, I’m in love with the brown/white striped shirt and brown jacket in the picture “Iรขโฌโขm textured and collected…” Where did you get them?! So pretty! Please let me know ๐ Thanks.