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You are here: Home / Adoption / Adoption Update: We Exited IBESR!

Adoption Update: We Exited IBESR!

Sep 24, 2015 By Layla

“I feel like I’ve been split open and stuffed with sunshine.”
―Tahereh Mafi

Diamond

Remember when I said I felt like this could be *the* week?

Welllllllll…IT WAS! 😀

We are officially out of IBESR, which means we are OFFICIALLY matched with our son!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Haiti Adoption

Next up, our paperwork goes to Parquet Court, and then they’ll start working on Sweet P’s (last) name change. Which reminds me- his first name will stay the same, his birth last name will become his middle name, and how FUN to know that he’ll be a Palmer within the next handful of months!

*sigh*

I’m beaming over here tonight. 🙂

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Three things, before I sign off to celebrate:

1. Some days it’s reeeeally hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel when it comes to our adoption timeline. But ya know what? There are also lots of days like today. Days that feel like a GIGANTIC exhale. Days I suddenly feel flexible again…loose enough to lean waaaay back so that I can re-see the whole miraculous thing with fresh eyes…so that I can re-understand that this whole HUGE thing is really one HUGE Gift.

I mean, really.

That God would draw me close…little-ol’ scaredy-cat, weirdo, flawed, messy ME. That He would call me to an island THIRTEEN HUNDRED miles away, so that I could be loved by THIS sparkly, precious son:

Mama and Baby | Haiti Adoption | Lifeline Childrens Services

Totally overwhelming, y’all. So humbling. I need to be more intentional about staying loose (without updates) so that I can remember to lean back on the Big Picture more often.  

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2. WAR ROOM. Go see it. Like, yesterday. I can hardly wait to watch it again.

3. Some of the sweet teachers from Three Angels School graciously spent some of their summer break instructing the kiddos at the Angel House orphanage about letters, numbers, songs, etc.

So grateful they post videos on their Facebook page so we can feel split open and stuffed with sunshine, too!

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  1. Susan Hughes

    Sep 24, 2015 at 10:18 pm

    Oh such glorious news! You’ve come such a long way, with such grace, it won’t be much longer now! Your Nashville friend that you’ve never met! Susan

  2. Marie P.

    Sep 24, 2015 at 10:21 pm

    What a sunny day indeed!!! Praying for God’s blessings for all of you.

  3. k sunday

    Sep 24, 2015 at 10:32 pm

    WOW so happy for all three of you! You are both going to be great parents! how cool when God hooks us up with the right people he really takes care of us. take care sincerely k. sunday

  4. Terry

    Sep 24, 2015 at 11:29 pm

    I have been checking all evening..I just could feel this…
    Thank God …for his grace and guidance. So very happy for all of you.

  5. Sherrie

    Sep 25, 2015 at 3:13 am

    I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU! I prayed for you this week… having adopted three I know how important each step forward is. Here’s to a quick few months for when your boy comes home.

  6. Mandy

    Sep 25, 2015 at 6:34 am

    Delighted for you all. I don’t even ‘know’ you in person but I hold my breath every time there’s an adoption update on your blog. How mental this online world is!
    I’m soooooooo excited, I can’t imagine how it is for you!
    X hugs from Scotland

  7. Baileywife @IrishmanAcres

    Sep 25, 2015 at 6:47 am

    My heart burst for you too!! I can just see this lil man in your beautiful home you’ve created for him and walking around, singing and dancing!! So much love!~Kim

  8. Tera

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:15 am

    I am so so happy for y’all!!!! Can’t wait to see a whole picture of y’all with Sweet P!

  9. Christy Keyton

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:22 am

    This brought tears to my eyes this morning. So happy for ALL of you!!!

  10. Sian

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:23 am

    I am so so happy for all 3 of you, that is such amizing news. I was adopted when I was just 6 weeks old (i’m 43 now) and I can tell you now your bond with your son will be such an amizingly strong one. Can’t wait to read the post when you say he is coming home with you. Lots of love to you all xxxx

  11. Lori

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:33 am

    YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so EXCITED for you and for him!!!!!!! I bet you are literally radiating happiness today!!! Congratulations! I can’t wait for your little Sweet P to come home!

  12. Cecilia

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:36 am

    That’s great news! So happy for the process to be moving forward!

  13. Doreen @ Hymns & Verses

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:39 am

    I just love reading these posts! I’m beaming too! Praying that everything goes smoothly and that you and your darling Sweet P will be together soon!

  14. Karen T.

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:41 am

    Soooo happy for the Palmers!!

  15. Jenn A

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:44 am

    Hallelujah! Such exciting news!

  16. Nicki

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:45 am

    I was beaming with you when I read your great news. Soon Layla, soon!

  17. gillian

    Sep 25, 2015 at 7:58 am

    Congratulations!!! Very happy for you and your husband.

  18. Vicki V

    Sep 25, 2015 at 8:03 am

    I am so excited for you and cannot wait to see a picture of you all together in your Home Sweet Home Alabama.

  19. hello haha narf

    Sep 25, 2015 at 8:11 am

    yay, yay, YAY!!!!! what a wonderful day!

  20. Laura McDaniel

    Sep 25, 2015 at 8:40 am

    CONGRATS to you all! We are all so happy for you – you are already a great mom (and creator yourself) and now you have the joy of sharing that with us as well…

  21. Julie

    Sep 25, 2015 at 8:50 am

    SOOOO HAPPY to read this GREAT NEWS!!! I can’t stop crying! Love and ((virtual hugs)) from the Ozark Mtns where I’ve been following your blog since the early days. You’ve inspired me in so many ways, and it has been a pleasure to pray for you and your family on this journey. I can’t wait to see a picture of his whole face! lol! Much joy!!!

  22. Michelle

    Sep 25, 2015 at 8:57 am

    Wonderful, wonderful news! Long time coming, & now to see ‘Sweet P’ @ the end of your long tunnel is now filled with light & love. God bless?

  23. Elizabeth

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:03 am

    I was hoping this was today’s news!! So very, very happy for you three. What a wonderful mother you already are : )

  24. shar y

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:10 am

    Oh! Happy Day! Such exciting news and we all wish you fast days!!

  25. Kim Wood

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:11 am

    Layla. I loved hearing your words today. They were like a balm on my hearts. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  26. Lisa w.

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:16 am

    I’m over the moon happy for you!!! Can’t wait to be able to see his sweet face all the time?
    Lisa:)

  27. Catherine

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:17 am

    Such sweet a sweet blessing and great news for the “Sweet P Family! Prayers that all goes smoothly.

  28. Judy

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:19 am

    Congratulations!! Wonderful news!

  29. Julia

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:26 am

    I can see your beaming glow here in Tampa! Very exciting news, thank you for sharing it with us!

  30. Kari Cox

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:33 am

    PRAISE GOD!!! I have followed your beautiful story in its entirety; have prayed for you, cried with you, and today I rejoice with you. May God Richly Bless all 3 of the Palmers. Thank you for letting us inside your journey.

  31. Raylan

    Sep 25, 2015 at 9:40 am

    My heart is so full after seeing this! So very happy for your family & looking forward to that sweet little boy coming HOME! Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It means more than you know!

  32. Emily

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:04 am

    Praise!! Celebrating with you today from TN! I just found your blog and am so excited to follow along in your journey; this post also brought me a lot of comfort and hope – my husband and I are on the road of adoption too and this morning was one of those mornings “the waiting time” just felt extra hard and my heart feels heavy. Thank you for sharing reminders of His important truths.

  33. Jody

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:27 am

    Jumping-up-and-down excited for all of you!!!

  34. Lauren

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:28 am

    Yay!!! I am so happy for you!! Praise God for this huge blessing! Today, I rejoice with you for this great gift. I know you are anxious to bring your Sweet P home. Praying for you.

  35. Faerie

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:47 am

    God is so good! Glorious news comes just when it is needed. Offering prayers of thanksgiving for all 3 of you. May the next step of your journey be filled with peace!

  36. Beth

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:49 am

    My heart swells for you. Watching that video made me wonder which sweet face belongs to your little ray of sunshine! I continue to pray for the 3 of you:))

  37. Heidi

    Sep 25, 2015 at 10:49 am

    I am all the way in California and the first thing I do each morning is check your blog for your adoption update. This is such great news! I can’t wait for you to bring your son home! You are almost there.

  38. Ange K.

    Sep 25, 2015 at 11:10 am

    And you’re not just waiting for him, he’s waiting for you too! 🙂

  39. Lorie

    Sep 25, 2015 at 11:23 am

    Happy tears in Nashville. I’m so excited for you guys!!

  40. Shannon Fox

    Sep 25, 2015 at 12:02 pm

    Congratulations!! So happy for you, Palmers! Thank you also for sharing the video. So sweet, and I love that I want to squeeze the ladies teaching just as much as I want to squeeze the kids. They’re ALL so precious!

  41. Shawnda

    Sep 25, 2015 at 12:11 pm

    I’m absolutely thrilled for all of you, but I’m also saddened a bit by the amount of time and red tape it takes to adopt. Sweet P is missing out on so many experiences and the ability to get settled in with his new family while he waits for the slow wheels to turn. Did I really read it right the other day that it takes about a year from this point before he comes home?

    • Layla

      Sep 25, 2015 at 12:34 pm

      Oh, don’t be sad, Shawnda! Today is for CELEBRATING a HUGE blessing! 😀 #FrownFreeZone
      It does stink that this process takes so long. BUT. The longer God works on me, the more I am convinced, his story is playing out *exactly* as it’s supposed to. God is with Sweet P, and we trust he is having the *exact* experiences God planned for him to have. I miss him SO MUCH, but it also makes me feel so emotional when I think about all the ways God is moving in and through him right now!! 😀 We may never know how many lives he has touched during these first four years. We may never know all the beautiful souls that poured into him during this time. We may never know why his story was so different from our own, or why we were to become his parents at age 4 instead of age newborn. God is in control, the process is moving, and our boy is sparkly and precious. We knew from the start this would be a 3-4 year adventure, so we’re going to keep trying our *best* to keep focused on the Wonder…not the rest of the wait. XO

  42. Gina

    Sep 25, 2015 at 12:25 pm

    This is the best news!! I am thrilled for you! How precious the video was to watch! Oh, those smiling faces. How blessed beyond measure your Sweet P will be to have you as parents!! 🙂

  43. Roxie

    Sep 25, 2015 at 12:28 pm

    Praise the Lord for you and your son. I know it will be a wonderful life for him and a joy for you and your husband. I am very happy for you. Congratulations and best wishes for the future.

  44. Lisa

    Sep 25, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    Congratulations! I’m so happy for you. I’m praying that the rest of the process goes quickly and smoothly. Happy weekend!!

  45. Mary

    Sep 25, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    Such good news! You’re another step closer! So excited for your family 🙂

  46. Sunny

    Sep 25, 2015 at 1:38 pm

    So very happy for you …the end is in sight..Hallelujah!

    And thank you for spilling over with gratefulness too..today is hard, waiting on such
    a hard road, which seems never ending but one day..
    maybe even today…I will lean waaayyy back to see His beautiful big picture for us.
    We are all so thrilled Sweet P is coming home!

  47. Susan

    Sep 25, 2015 at 1:52 pm

    yeah! yeah! yeah! so happy for your family

  48. melinda ke

    Sep 25, 2015 at 2:06 pm

    YaY, what good news to start the weekend! Sweet P will be home before you know it!!! 🙂

  49. Sherri

    Sep 25, 2015 at 2:34 pm

    Chill bumps!!!! Every time i see a video or picture from the orphanage, I try to figure out which sweet face belongs to your Sweet Pea! So over the top happy for Kevin & you!

  50. Mindy

    Sep 25, 2015 at 2:36 pm

    Joy, joy, joy!!! His timing is always perfect : )

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